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Female NA, 18 | email
Hello, 
My BF is ready to have sex but i don't think i am, i really want to please him, but i'm just not 
ready! I feel that if he trys to push me my depression will kick in! I want to tell him, but i\\\'m afraid to! What do i do? I'm really stuck! Thanks a lot! You really help! 

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Female
Katie, 19 | email
Hey this kid I\'m with we have had sex already but if i ask him to have sex hell be so hard but hell say no that it has something to do wit his religion that he wants to wait till monday all the time .. and that hes looking out for me and him .. wtttfffff does this mean i aready said it makes me feel like im not good enough .. i spend everyday with him and half the time hes hard .. why wouldnt he wanna have sex i feel like the reason hes telling me is bullshit

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Female
awww, 18
uhmm hi.. 
my gf and i wanted to have sex..but im a virgin and shes a virgin too..we tried to have sex..but her pussy is too tight..i mean she is a virgin..my cock wont fit in her hole...when i put my fingers inside her pussy she said it hurts...

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DirtySexTalk.net answer
Be very patient. You have to make sure your GF is really turned on before you proceed. You probably can't wait any longer but foget about your dick for now. Try kissing and leaking...
By the way, make sure you wash your hands well prior putting fingers inside your GF's pussy. Antibacterial soap is preferable.



Female
.0tch0., 19
.im a virgin now.., but if i will have a sex, is it possible that i will have bleeding?

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Most likely you will, but don't be affaraid, this is normal. Make sure your partner is knowledgeble, patient and tender. Use lubricant if you feal it's too dry inside. It might be painfu. But it will be amazing right after.




Female
Billy Kent, 50
As to size, it is often said if you are even average size not to worry , "It's what you do with it that really matters." My question what does that mean.? I would like specifics,maybe I need to learn how better to do it. I realize that straight thrusting at various speeds is not enough, especially if the male member is rather thin. It is like pushing a pencil into a coke bottle and not making contact with the vaginal walls. I don't have this problem during the initial penetration. I am 8 3/4 inches long and 2 1/4 inches diameter at the root of my cock (equates to approximately 6 1/2 inches circumference). So when I first enter the vagina I 
spread most women\\\'s inner walls for full contact. Later as things become adjusted I try doing some other things. Like a few short fast strokes, pause and work my shaft up and down or side to side and/or in a circular fashion. Also when I am thrusting slowly I try to withdraw in a chisel rather than punch fashion by pressing upward with my shaft against the vagina upper portion and hopefully stimulate the clitoris Is this some of the things that are in the "what you do with it" category? If not or there is more please relate. My goal for each intercourse is to give the woman one or more very pleasurable climaxes and finally to thrust to the maximum depth I can achieve and with several thrusts, pauses and contractions eject streams of cum in the vain attempt to fill her full.

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It looks like you've answered your own question :)



Female
sunil , 33 | email
i want to learn about different postions of sex and to do that practically. please guide me

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Female
Chloe , 18 | email
Hi, i've been going out with my boyfriend for 3 years and he always whats me to talk sexy when we are having sex. My mind has nothing to say, he also want me to tell him what to do. And still i dont know what to do? I try and do everything. but can you help me

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Listen to yourself. Do YOU want to tell him all these dirty things. If the answer is yes, you will find the right words. Just be yourself.



Female
Mike , 23
My girl of 3years recently went to a hippie fest and gave some dude oral...I have cheated on her before and same for her...I really fell in love with her and my emotions for her have only gotten stronger since she moved in almost 2years ago...in that time I have loved and been loyal to her, I understand she was extremely drunk but is that any excuse? Is our relationship doomed? I just want to know if u think she deserves another chance....

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She does. Stay with her.



Female
Julie , 28 | email
My husband gets frustrated because he can't last for very long. It makes him not want to do it. What can he do or i do to help? Does anyone else have this problem?

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It happens to many men. He should practice and try to last longer. Tell him to do the folowing:
- Every time you feel like cumming, stop for about 10 secs and then go on.
- Keep your arms and legs together. It closes the energy circle.
- Try not to cum for the first 15 min. After that it will be much easier to hold it.
- Try special cream that reduces penis sensitivity.



Female
josiph , 21 | email
i am 23 and my dick is 11.5 cm is that good i do not know coz i did not try before plz replayyyyyy

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Your dick is average. Plenty of girls will be pleased with it. Especially for anal. Just find the right girl.



Female
angi , 21
my bf of 5 month just moved in together..things r great..but things keep bothering me about his past..he is 36(15 years older den im) had alot of female in his life, all which was under 21..my question is after being with soo many different woman how about im not enough..how do i no that??? and how can i no if he starts liking galz younger den me??

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If your BF has chosen you after having so many different girls, it means you are really special...



Female
Tiffany , 20
im seeing this guy that i really like we have known eachother for 3 years we have had amazing sex many times but i just cant find the words to ask him out i have a fear of being rejected or hearing him say he just wants to be friends. i really like him but i want to ask him out and ask him with words that he cant say no to. can anybody help me?

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DirtySexTalk.net answer
You should learn to make very clear hints. Seduce him... If your friend doesn't react, it means he isn't really interested. Men enjoy mistery... and hunting. That's their nature. Even the sexiest woman is no longer desirable if she offers everything right away. Of cource there are exeptions, and if you are dealing with a shy guy... take the innishiative... Anyways, being sensitive and understanding who you are dealing with is always helpful. Good luck



Female
Andrea, 42
my husband is having an affair with another woman. He has even brought her into our house 4 times in my absence and has fucked her in my bedroom. He loves sex all the time and is a sex meniac. When i came to know of it and when i questioned him, he just denied the whole issue. How do i catch him in this act - what should i do ?

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DirtySexTalk.net answer
Sorry for this late reply... Do you really want to catch him? Is it your ultimate goal...? You are suffering and want revenge? You want him to be yours only? You just feel lonely? At this point you have four options.
1. You do catch him. No matter how you do it. Video recording, witness, you suddenly come back home. You may have your husband feel guilty, but what's next? He'll keep doing the same. He might not bring another woman back home but still...
2. You talk to him and talk to yourself. Try to figure out what kind of relationships you want to have...
3. Do the same and make him notice that you are independent and self-sufficient.
4. Leave him but note that this is typically the worst option.


Female melissa, 19
i have this guy i like ...we have inticores once in a wile ...and its no that good ...but i realy like him and jus wish it could be better ...i like to do differnt things and want him to do the same but im affard to ask...

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DirtySexTalk.net answer
Use you feminine magic and if he is attracted to you, you are going to have amazing time together. Naughty behaviour, make up, dexy clothes, seductive hints... your options are infinite...


MaleKsh V, 22
| email
Hi

I want ask one question. I have my one friend (cousin ) living in my street only. I like her very much and as we are cousin we go to each others house every weekend and watch movies, have dinner, lunch
together etc.

But the thing is that I always dream about her, everynight when I go to bed and everytime when I masturbate I think about her only. I wish to enjoy with her and marry her.. She is 18 yrs old and she is in grade 12. I don't understand how to propose her and how to exite her to enjoy and how to agree her to marry me.

Even if she agrees to marry then If she want I can wait for her intill she finish her college.

She is always very friendly with me. But I am scared with only one thing that when she will know what I think about her what will be my impression in her mind. But I love her very much.

She is my cousin thats why I feel hesitation in aksing her and in proposing her. She is the girl that if her self respect is hurt she cancels the relatioship with the person whomsoever he/she may be.

SO thats my main problem that how to excite her for sex and tell her that I love her and want to marry her.
Plase guide me in proper way.

ANYBODY READING MY QUESTION CAN SEND ME SUGGESTIONS ON imurbeloved4ever@yahoo.com
Thanking You to all of my friends

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DirtySexTalk.net answer
Don't you think that planning a marriage would be a little bit too early at this point?
You may become friends, lovers, etc... Start slowly and watch her reactiuons... Be sensitive where it's needed... Be strong where she expects force... You are going to make it...



Male $ome1, 32
My girlfriend is trying to dominate. I don't like it but that's the way she wants to behave. I wonder if I should ignore it or leave her.

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DirtySexTalk.net answer
Are you 100% sure you don't like that? If you guys are still together, it means there are things that really attract you. Think about your relationship in terms of overall emotional balance. Perhaps if your girlfriend didn't behave that way, she would be very different... and who knows... maybe you wouldn't be attracted to her anymore. If you still want to change the situation, try to dominate yourself. Let her feel weak.



Female
Theresa , 19
My boyfriend wants to have anal sex with me but I don't feel like doing it. But I do want to please him. What should I do?

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DirtySexTalk.net answer
You should do two things. First you should ask yourself and understand why exactly you don't want to try anal sex. Does it have to do with your physiology (it might be painful and unpleasant) , your moral barrier or something else. Or does it have to do with your boyfriend and this particular situation. His penis is too big, His sexual behavior is too aggressive, etc. Once you understand why you don't want this, you'll be able to handle this. Talk to your boyfriend and explain him that the fact that you cannot or don't want to have anal sex doesn't mean anything bad



FemaleMe, 23
Hello. The guy I am dating is kind of paranoid. He thinks that his thing is too small. He believes that I am not satisfied with his size. He even told me that I am faking my orgasms. I don't know how to explain to him that he's absolutely perfect.

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DirtySexTalk.net answer
Tell your boyfriend that all the buzz around huge penises is fake. You may also tell him that most women prefer and feel comfortable with average size (which is absolutely true) Make him feel that his penis is even too big for you sometimes. Be creative :)



Female The , 31
My husband insists on anal sex. I don't want it. But I don't want to disappoint him!

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DirtySexTalk.net answer
You should try to convince your husband that anal sex is just not for everyone. Some women enjoy it while some find it very painful and irritating. Physiology and love are not the same thing. If he loves you, he'll understand.

Male Tim, 28
I was watching porn movie with my wife and she got very excited. She told me she wants to try sex with 2 and even 3 men. I keep thinking- what if she does it and I have no idea she did.

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DirtySexTalk.net answer
It really depends on her personality and your relationships. Don't worry. Most likely it's just her fantasy and there is a huge gap between imagining something and doing it. If you are still worried, you should remember one smart thing: "If you can't prevent something, initiate it". Consider experimenting together. She has sex with two men, and you have sex with two women.



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